So this all started a year ago(yes I've had these feelings for her for that long) , I always found her attractive but I never really looked into it. Then one day she tells me she's had a crush on me. Since that moment we started hanging outside of work (Oh yes, she is also my co-worker, err at least she was.) And I started liking her. She just got out of a relationship so I understood that she wasn't really ready. I would be patient. But Her ex was still in the picture so for her I had to put my feelings aside. I didn't want to get hurt, at least more than I already was because lets face it I was really starting to like her. So time goes by, her and her ex never got back together. We still remain friends. And then we started hanging out and flirting like we used to. Maybe she's ready now? So I focus all my attention on her and all those feelings I put aside start coming back. Things are going well. She tells me she's still not ready. I understand, so I'm patient. But slowly I felt like she started pulling away. She wasn't always there. Little did I know she was falling for someone else and here I am giving her my all. I was heartbroken. I didn't find out they were together til after my birthday! MY BIRTHDAY! And she was still messing around with me, basically cheating on her. And now I don't know what to do. I'm in love with her, and she's in love with her. And I've tried so hard getting over her. But... I j can't.