Troubles in a relationship
Feeling unwanted is not a good feeling. And it is laborious not to feel that you have been rejected when you are dumped. Break ups end in negative feelings that one needs to deal with. Depending on the person’s outlook and the circumstances, the reaction could be anything from sadness and depression to extreme anger. This normally stems from the fact that you are in love along with your ex and also you thought your partner was in love with you. However out of nowhere you end up being dumped. Unfortunately, relationships debacles can happen due to lack of understanding about the way a healthy relationship is built. Instead, one must develop long term view of life and build a strong foundation for the unshakable relationship
Rekindling the flame
Further, it is better to reestablish the broken relationships instead of looking for new ones on the horizon. With a known relationship, it is less challenging than trying to know a new person. Although one may feel to it is easier to start a new relationship, it could be a beginning of another new episode fraught with risks and failures. It is essential to understand that every relationship is unique. In addition, one may find still lot is left to say in broken relationship since not all feelings have died or vanished.
Two like minded people
All relationships start with two liked minded people coming together who like each other. Perhaps, it could all be rosy initially. Nonetheless, the vagaries of life can catch up with the happy couples. As the time passes, the initial attraction can lesson and boredom may set in. Naturally, the partners may start to focus failures of the other person and may start blaming for the seemingly tough life.
Life’s hard lessons
Over a period, many relationships issues come to naught that leads to breakups. The main reason being, instead of trying to find amicable solution, partners may resort to blaming each other for failures. Indeed, one’s life can never be bed of roses. In contrast, everyone undergoes stress, comes under pressure to stay a sane individual in our society. While trying to conform to social expectations, people may suffer a lot just to meet the expectations of others. Moreover, life is a struggle and one cannot stress enough on this.
Alex Wise is a dating consultant and blog contributor. He writes his best ideas, advices and tips about relationships, online dating and marriage for blogs and sites. Follow him on the company site at http://loveawake.com or on Facebook and Twitter