Kind of like, "gas is just a chemical reaction"
But what if it's not? What if letting out a chemical reaction would determine what kind of relationship you're getting yourself into? Like a smelly, unexpected, yet totally hilarious moment.. but that "chemical reaction" feeling will set you up for something great. Make sense? Prolly not. See I have this thing where I try to make an explantion but I end up in another topic. Hence, "chemical reactions"
What I'm trying to say is that age could be just a number. People have different perspectives. I'll use myself: I'm 10 years different from my boyfriend. Oddly enough, we are exactly the same. We can be so mature yet goofy. I enjoy how he puts me in my place and he loves how I buckle his ass down and finish school. People give us funny looks because I'm super tiny and he's taller than I. Because I look like I'm going to puberty and he has curves in his lovely face. Or it could be the fact that we are an inter-racial relationship. What ever the case may be, love doesn't know how old you are. Love doesn't CARE how old you are.When LOVE grabs hold of you. Put on a helmet because it's going to get bumpy, messy, yet warm... like a fart lol.
Anyways, why not date someone my age? I did. I have. And quite frankly, younger men aren't emotionally ready. For some reason they have these kind of thoughts that a girl would become "submissive" and be loyal, and won't care if you're out all night and come home drunk. In my experience the guys I've dated don't have the mental maturity. Not even if you present them a child in their life.
Thankfully, God blessed me with a man I can stare at.. and he'll stare back. A man I can make the most annoying baby talk (to him) and he'll take it and not think I'm being a "crazy girlfriend". He'll know I'm being myself, and sincere. When we make love, it's actually love.. and not pity sex because I was upset when he totally bailed on me.
Age is just a number. I'm not saying all young guys aren't mentally ready. But if you're a women.. and tired of the men who can't seem to value you and love you for who you are.. you will find a young, caring, passionate man who is waiting for the right women who is ready to show him she's been there all a long.
Make sense? Prolly not. :P